So, I haven't posted in a few days. I actually been kinda in the dumps/stressed/self loathing for the past few days. I don't know what got into me but I hit a wall and just slowly slid down it like a slug for this last week. But, last night I think I finally got my head above water and crawled out of the bummer pool.
This morning I woke up happy and so did Fritz. What I noticed was, when I was kinda bumming this past week, is that your mood rubs off on your kid. When I was at my gloomiest on Tuesday Fritz was at his worst...screaming, tearing up the house and whining about everything. It was awful, for all of us. And this can work vice versa as we all know, super cranky kid=super cranky parent.
This is just life. But what I realize is, when you hit the wall work on the solution sooner not later. How can you change the things that are bugging you and continue to kick ass in life? Answer your own questions or have your man or friends help. Make a list of what's on your mind and workshop that shit. Feeling lonely at home? No one comes to hang anymore? Have a dinner party! Feeling in a rut? Plan a Vacation! Even if its 6 months down the road...It will come sooner than you think. And so on...But mostly...Don't bottle up, it's bad for your skin!
This morning I woke up happy and so did Fritz. What I noticed was, when I was kinda bumming this past week, is that your mood rubs off on your kid. When I was at my gloomiest on Tuesday Fritz was at his worst...screaming, tearing up the house and whining about everything. It was awful, for all of us. And this can work vice versa as we all know, super cranky kid=super cranky parent.
This is just life. But what I realize is, when you hit the wall work on the solution sooner not later. How can you change the things that are bugging you and continue to kick ass in life? Answer your own questions or have your man or friends help. Make a list of what's on your mind and workshop that shit. Feeling lonely at home? No one comes to hang anymore? Have a dinner party! Feeling in a rut? Plan a Vacation! Even if its 6 months down the road...It will come sooner than you think. And so on...But mostly...Don't bottle up, it's bad for your skin!
Oh Sam...I couldn't agree more. Serio, Glad to hear you're feeling better :)
Posted by: Emilia | October 04, 2008 at 12:17 AM
That was really cute, and so true.
im an extremely young mom, and would like to think im style very hip..as a matter of fact im have already been deemed the milf in class and my son is 4!!!!! wtf.
but your kids definitely pick up on your mood..and like you said if their day is crap best believes yours will be too!
Posted by: miss fab | October 05, 2008 at 08:03 PM